Fun with Lens Flare: 34 Weeks


This is my signature dress of this summer's pregnancy.  It is so comfortable that sometimes I even sleep in it.  This is our front yard at sunset.  The dandelions and all of the cotton flying around are a nice, unexpected touch.  34 weeks has always been my biggest milestone.  I am very near the end.




I always say, ANYONE can take awesome photos if they shoot in manual mode.  It is such an easy thing to learn how to do.  This was unplanned, took 2 minutes.  I metered, switched places with my husband, and he focused the camera manually.  So fun!

Looking Back and Holding Steady

It's funny how much can change in only a few days.  I started a few blog posts, but I was distracted and unable to finish them.  I am well into my 8th month of trying to decide on the best vehicle for our growing family and the lowest-maintenance reusable diaper for the baby.  I also recently picked up interest in our ancestry and in choosing a baby name.

One week ago I was sitting in the front yard late one evening watching the boys play and wrote, "These summer days are heaven.  June through September, each year, are the months that make the cold and dark winters worthwhile.  There is a calm in the Interior of Alaska.  It's not too hot, not too cold, not too buggy, and so still.  The sounds of the wild are not overwhelming.  An occasional boat passes by.  I've determined that summer is the perfect time to end a pregnancy.  There is so much to be happy about that there is no time to dwell on being pregnant."

A couple of days ago those two months of sunny evenings faded away and I predicted that for the month of August, "Summer, in the Interior, is almost over.  August is here, which means we will probably receive plenty of moisture and experience temperatures that are good for growing radishes and spinach.  The Tanana Valley State Fair starts tomorrow, which to many people indicates cool and cloudy days.  The tomatoes plants will start to go downhill.  And the first light frost will probably make an appearance."

Yesterday, I thought that my water broke.  It terrified me since I am only 33 weeks along and I would idealy like to make it three more weeks so that I can deliver a baby around 6 pounds.  One of my boys was born at 36 weeks 4 days and the other at 35 weeks 7 days (just hours shy of 36).  It turned out that my water did not break, but it scared me enough into taking it even more easy than I already had been.  This evening I stayed home while my family went to enjoy the local State Fair.  Immediately, after they left, I recollected the last four weeks of my last pregnancy, where while exhausted I tried to stay horizontal to keep pressure off of the baby's route of exit.  This time though I have plenty of energy and while the baby is incredibly low, it is being kind to my body.  It takes every ounce of mental strength to restrain myself from doing simple tasks like blanching carrots, vacuuming, or going out to pick those beautiful red, ripe raspberries in our woods.  I think I may need to take up a craft that can be done while lying down or get my hands on another great book.

I will continue to remind myself that every hour, every day, and every week that this unborn child stays inside of me is key to its health, development and long-term well-being.  I am thankful that I have a wonderful husband who cares for me and our kids, our dog, and our home during the last weeks of each of my pregnancies.  And I will try to enjoy this change of pace and the new opportunities and change in perspective that will be ever-present until the baby arrives.  Whenever I feel a twinge of nerves,  I just look to these two boys and they reassure me that everything is going to turn out wonderfully.

Salcha River Cabin

This is the Alaskan cabin in the family.  It is surrounded by state land, is only accessible by boat or snow machine, and was purchased a couple years ago by my in-laws who were looking for some space out of town and a pre-retirement project.  Splitting wood (see my husband back left) and getting clean, warm water are two of the biggest projects now that the cabin has been remodeled and an outhouse has been built.

After they purchased the cabin, they had to purchase a new boat.  We inherited the old one, which needs a lot of electrical work, but we get rides on this one and borrow it sometimes on our river, the Chena.

Speaking of work, there was a lot to be done in the yard last weekend when we visited.  Here the boys and grandma are waving at passing boats while they throw brush onto the fire.

It was a long day for the boys.  One fell asleep on the boat seat on the ride back to the car and the other slept in the car.  

Sweet Baby Three

Goodness!  Have I not blogged about sweet baby three?  So much will change!  We will finally have to get a bigger rig (been choosing it since about Jan 1 this year but putting it off because I love my Corolla), build bunk beds for the boys, use our spare room for second kid room, and worry about small toys on the floor again.  I will have to push a stroller with an infant seat and make baby food out of our food.  It will be great!

Things have been different this third time around.  I don't have a job or school that gets me up early or keeps me on my feet all day and I have two boys who know how to sleep in, one of whom still takes a solid afternoon nap.  In addition to getting great sleep, I have had an excellent diet.  My new favorite books by the way are Wild Fermentation (Katz), Deep Nutrition (Shanahan), Super Nutrition for Babies (Erlich), and Coconut Oil Miracle (Fife). 

Week 16, Easter


Week 28, Independence Day Weekend


Some things have not changed.  I am still a tiny person with a larger than average sized baby who goes head down before Week 30.  Strangers comment that I look ready to have the baby, that the baby looks very low, and that I look good.  If this baby is within a couple ounces of big brothers, I and the medical professionals expect him/her to come around 36 weeks, so August 26 instead of the official due date of September 23.  In the end, it will be interesting to see if the probiotic foods, the collagen-building bone broths, and the otherwise nutrient-dense diet will prevent my water from breaking early.  My guess is no, but I always love a good experiment, and if nothing else the good food and sleep are making me feel strong, happy, and energetic.

Our Yard


The yard itself is really green and has been push mowed more times this June than it has all of the other summers combined.  This is due to a good summer with pretty consistent rain and probably deeper roots and more native grasses too now that it's been planted for five summers.

I love simple, practical gifts.  
The Easter bunny left these birdhouses,
and we each had a great time decorating one.

It was a rainy day yesterday so I thought a good time to take photos of our first substantial garden.  I love that it is right next to the playground.  Our 4 year old knows what every single plant is and helps me to care for them.  After a little over a month of growth, some things are doing great and some are coming along slowly (kale, chard, carrots in way back bed).  Due to temperature differences between beds and between areas within beds, I think I will do a little rearranging of seeds next year.
Above, we have onions, cabbage, peas, edible sunflower. 

Strawberries, herbs, cauliflower, broccoli                     Lettuce, beans, tomatoes                

Potatoes, Beans, Carrots

My husband started our well casing.   
Perhaps there will be room to plant something edible there also.

And finally here is the woodshed that my husband designed and built last summer.
Each of the five sections stores just over 3 cord birch, white spruce, or aspen and it is almost full.

Back to Basics

I am so glad that I started this blog 3 years ago.  I try to keep paper journals for each of the kids, but my penmanship is slow and the result difficult to read; although I make good paper records for each of the kids during pregnancy/infancy, it is difficult to keep up with each of the kids individually after about one year of age.  With this photo/web log, the kids will never have to wonder ... what was it that we did as kids and what did mom and dad do with their free time?

We spend a good part of April and May this year in Minnesota at Grandma and Grandpa's farm.  The kids helped to plant the garden, build a treehouse, saw logs, fence, gather chicken eggs, and mow lawn.  We rode 4 wheelers and toy bikes all over the place, threw sticks into the lake at the cabin, played in sawdust from the mill, climbed rocks near Lake Superior, and ate peanuts on the deck.  During cold or rainy days, the boys enjoyed my old Legos, discovered Dennis the Menace, played games like Cootie and Candyland, and completed crafts in the basement.  We played hard.  We slept hard.  And we ate well.  We drank a lot of hand-pressed apple juice and ate a lot of blueberries (and took 50lbs home with us too). We enjoyed a polka service at church, a dance caller at a community hall, and live music at a bar.  The four year old really bonded with Grandma, and the two year old continued to potty train and favored Grandpa, who was in charge of the tractors.  My husband, who had recently taken a new job, was able to join us during the last week of our trip to cut, split, and saw some wood.  I learned how to crochet and completed 4 projects, borrowed 35mm film cameras and took my first roll of film manually, read a couple books on food quality and ethics, and tried to help out in the kitchen when I could.  The kids once again were perfect travelers; with their matching backpacks, their good behaviors, and their BOB, they captured the attention of many other travelers.

There are many great photos to share, but I think if I have a few rainy days, I will focus on getting them onto a printing site so that I can order them for our hard books.  Sometimes, and especially at this time of year, it's too much for me to get everything onto this blog.  Here's one of the boys helping grandpa to plant potatoes:


Being in the place where I grew up, so open, lush, and fertile, I was reminded of the importance of eating as well and as sustainably as possible.  The first thing we did when we arrived home in Alaska (after doing necessary summer prep like ordering more bedroom shades, getting wood from neighbors, and cleaning up the yard) was expand our gardens substantially and restart the red-wiggler vericompost.  Our kind neighbor contributed some started plants and some sprouted potatoes to the new raised beds, my husband is growing hot peppers in his grandmother's greenhouse, and I planted a lot of seed as well.  In addition to growing more of our own vegetables, thanks to the knowledge great friends from across the globe have shared with me, I have been inspired to do a lot of food chemistry research on the health benefits of bone broths, ferments, proper grain/bean/nut preparation, and cooking oils.  I have been invited to join a local food coop.  In my opinion, and the kids have also said their fare share of "yum," our food has neither tasted this good before nor has it been so affordable.  I figure, we will soon be a family of five and in addition to moose, salmon and berries, we really need to make a greater daily effort to eat close to home, traditionally, and simply.  Here are our new gardens and water supply:


Shirts 'n Skirts, Swords and More

I've been into making gifts lately. We are invited to a lot of birthday parties each year and we're at the age where we have a lot of friends having a lot of babies. Although 15-30 bucks a kid for 20 or so kids a year doesn't add up to more than a few hundred dollars, I get tired of shopping on the internet or even locally for educational, green, durable, yet fun toys. Plus, some of the nicest gifts my kids receive are gifts that are made by the creative minds of other moms. I've found also that often times I'd rather just spend some time seeing what my imagination can develop.

100% cotton beach skirt for 2 year old girl,
(<1/2 yard fabric, some elastic, some thread)

dragon shirts for boys,
(art drawn by a friend in jpeg format,
transferred to tees-on-sale by local small business)

dump truck shirts for little boys,
(again good quality shirts on clearance for a few dollars,
a tube of fabric paint for a couple of dollars,
and a silhouette cut out and painted with a sponge)

I also had a good time embroidering some onsies. My free-style embroidery skills are okay but I couldn't fit as much as I'd liked ... for one "Baby Frampdizzle" became "(Embroidered Figure of Baby) Frampton" and for another "1/2 Glad 1/2 Grumpy" just became "1/2 Glad," the mom's maiden name. I've made plenty of swords and shields and I've found that some felt and hot glue makes nice and easy handle covers for the swords and hand slots on the shields. I've also been experimenting with wall cutouts of little boy and girl cowboys for our farm-loving cousins. I haven't made all of the gifts ... some have been eco-crafts, some locally hand-made items, and some have been simple craft activities I have developed.

Meanwhile, my husband has been cooking up a storm making giant yummy meals for families of new babies. When we had our first baby, a mom I had never met (a work acquaintance) dropped a taco meal on our doorstep; it was the most helpful and touching thing anyone could have done and so for each new baby since then we have always tried to offer the same gift.

I've also managed to fit in a maternity and a baby photo session, which has been fun for me, because I always love to use my camera and show myself that I still have knack for quality manual photos. They were both challenging sessions (one with feet of reflective snow at only 5F and the other inside (yes inside natural light!) chasing a squiggly baby around)

Spring is always a busy and fun time. The boys sure have been enjoying the snow, slush, puddles, rocks, and mud!

Color

Today, after a week of blue skies and melting temps, the inevitable happened. It snowed. I admit; I liked it. It made me feel all warm, cozy, and crafty. Here are just a few of the things that we did with food color today to make the gray skies feel sunny again.

Homemade play-doh (this batch was a gift from a friend)

Brown eggs, some colored with crayon and all dyed

Snow "paint," just water and some drops of color

A sea

We also dropped water colors I made (in an ice cube tray) onto coffee filters and then cut them into colorful snowflakes. The kids have enjoyed mixing the colors also, for years, to see which new colors they can make. Just a few drops in water, plus your imagination and theirs, can create so much fun for a small child.

The Beginning of Year Four



We now have a six year old (dog), a four year old, and a two year old in the house. The boys spend all day, with minimal intervention by me, laughing, playing games, and discovering things. The imagination of the older one and the language skills of the younger one have really allowed for their relationship to form nicely. They are both so fortunate to have best friends and playmates from the time they awaken until the time they go to sleep.


We had about 40 adults and children attend our son's outdoor bonfire birthday party. The kids really had a great time playing in all of the snow, on the playground, with dump trucks, buckets, and especially with colored water in spray bottles. We played a couple of games where the kids raced to find pinwheels and snowflakes in the mazes (paths) but they were so busy playing together that participation was sporadic so I didn't even have to bother with tug of war or freeze tag. The adults entertained themselves by the bonfire ... for over four hours!


For me, this winter has gone by quickly. We recently were able to make our first snowman since snow first fell around Halloween, five months ago; Spring is here! Our son completed almost a year (8 months) of preschool two days a week. One of his last days of school was crazy hair day. And he completed a tot level ice skating class.


This summer, the boys will resume swimming lessons and in the fall our four and a half year old will take violin lessons from a local teacher and join the other Suzuki preschool children in town once a week to play as a group. We are going to register both boys for a preschool close to our home, but I am not sure yet if we will have them attend. Maybe we will join the ski team, go to MN more, or just let them stay home and play with each other. Being that they aren't yet in school, we have a lot of good options.

Ice Festival








Every year we have a couple of ice festivals in Interior Alaska. One is in around Christmas time and the other is in February and March. Ice festivals to me are like dog sled races. I could take them or leave them, which is why I've never bothered to write about our attending them before, even though we've brought our kids as young as infants. If the temp is above 20 and the sun is out, we'll go and enjoy a few hours outside, but below that they can be painful activities or all too short. Today, it was near 30 and sunny and the International Ice Festival, which has been going on for weeks, will end in a week. We had an excellent time walking through five-foot ice mazes, crawling through three-foot ones, spinning in ice bowls, and of course sliding down the large, dangerous slides of glare ice. The kids loved every second of this adventure.








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